I have heard it a countless times from most women that men are sex animals and that they stay where they always get sex. A lady once told me "a man will stay with you if you can give him different styles in bed". Well, didn't realy understood what she meant by "styles". But from the look of things, she was talking about sex positions. You are right ladies, men love sex. But sex will never be the reason why they will stay with you forever. You know why? because they can get it everywhere. Let me tell you the secret ladies, men are not so much concerned with the so called good sex. Every woman can give a man sex so why should he stay with you?. There should be something unique about you that will make him stay with you. Sex is good, add these 5 qualities and your man will always love to be with you.
1. A man stays with a woman who is playful
Do you know why most men love to be with their peer groups? Do you know why they love watching football and playing other games? Because they want to have fun. Men love to have fun. If you can be their fun, they will always be with you. You don't have to take everything serious. Know when to be serious with issues and when to make fun. Sometimes men say a lot of things just to make fun. If you are the type who takes every word seriously, you will always have issues with them. He will always have to choose his words carefully anytime he is with you. That will make him uncomfortable and uneasy around you. Hey, cool downdown, make it fun for him. Laugh at his jokes and make things lively. You will always be his dosage for happiness.
Do you know why most men love to be with their peer groups? Do you know why they love watching football and playing other games? Because they want to have fun. Men love to have fun. If you can be their fun, they will always be with you. You don't have to take everything serious. Know when to be serious with issues and when to make fun. Sometimes men say a lot of things just to make fun. If you are the type who takes every word seriously, you will always have issues with them. He will always have to choose his words carefully anytime he is with you. That will make him uncomfortable and uneasy around you. Hey, cool downdown, make it fun for him. Laugh at his jokes and make things lively. You will always be his dosage for happiness.
2. A man stays with a woman who is attractive.
Women always get it wrong. There is a difference between being beautiful and being attractive. You can be beautiful but not attractive. Men are not interested in beautiful women, they are interested in women who are attractive. Perhaps, you got it wrong because men refer to attractive women as beautiful. Know what to wear and when to wear it to attract your man. At least, you've been with him for sometime now. You should know what catches his eyes. Give him the feeling that he's got that woman he can boast of. He will always be with you if he can find you attractive. He will feel comfortable to introduce you to his friends. Don't just wear anything when he is around. Wear something attractive. When he is taking you out on a date, wear something that will make him feel proud of himself. Men are so much concerned with appearance. They follow things that appear nice to them. If you can appear nice to him, he will always stay with you. It not a matter of beauty (though it can add a little flavor to it), it about how you dress and conduct yourself around him.
Women always get it wrong. There is a difference between being beautiful and being attractive. You can be beautiful but not attractive. Men are not interested in beautiful women, they are interested in women who are attractive. Perhaps, you got it wrong because men refer to attractive women as beautiful. Know what to wear and when to wear it to attract your man. At least, you've been with him for sometime now. You should know what catches his eyes. Give him the feeling that he's got that woman he can boast of. He will always be with you if he can find you attractive. He will feel comfortable to introduce you to his friends. Don't just wear anything when he is around. Wear something attractive. When he is taking you out on a date, wear something that will make him feel proud of himself. Men are so much concerned with appearance. They follow things that appear nice to them. If you can appear nice to him, he will always stay with you. It not a matter of beauty (though it can add a little flavor to it), it about how you dress and conduct yourself around him.
3. A man stays with a woman who he can feel superior with.
Men always want to lead. Maybe that is because they were created that way. They hate to be with women who oppose everything they say. They want someone who will respect their views. They want to be problem solvers for their women. Tell him what you need and give the impression that, if he doesn't do it for you, no one else will do. That will make him feel he is your superman. Yea, that is really shocking. That is why most men don't want to be with women who have higher standards than they do. Men always want to be ahead of their women. Because of their urge to lead, they don't want their women to get ahead of them. They want to see themselves as the reason behind your happiness. It's in the nature of men to lead, give them that respect and they will always be with you.
Men always want to lead. Maybe that is because they were created that way. They hate to be with women who oppose everything they say. They want someone who will respect their views. They want to be problem solvers for their women. Tell him what you need and give the impression that, if he doesn't do it for you, no one else will do. That will make him feel he is your superman. Yea, that is really shocking. That is why most men don't want to be with women who have higher standards than they do. Men always want to be ahead of their women. Because of their urge to lead, they don't want their women to get ahead of them. They want to see themselves as the reason behind your happiness. It's in the nature of men to lead, give them that respect and they will always be with you.
4. A man stays with a woman who is sincere
Men love to be with women who fake not their feelings. Men become insecure when their women fake their feelings. She is not happy yet she will pretend to be happy. She is not enjoying it but she will say "I'm enjoying it". The truth is that you can always tell the difference. You can tell the difference between a real laughter and a fake one. Don't try to cover how you feel. He will always know when you are faking it. If you are that type, he will never belief even when you tell him you love him because he might think you are just telling another lie. Be sincere with your feelings and he will love you for that.
Men love to be with women who fake not their feelings. Men become insecure when their women fake their feelings. She is not happy yet she will pretend to be happy. She is not enjoying it but she will say "I'm enjoying it". The truth is that you can always tell the difference. You can tell the difference between a real laughter and a fake one. Don't try to cover how you feel. He will always know when you are faking it. If you are that type, he will never belief even when you tell him you love him because he might think you are just telling another lie. Be sincere with your feelings and he will love you for that.
5. A man stays with a woman who is independent
The truth is that no man wants to be calling a woman seven times a day. They don't want women who will follow them around everywhere they go. It become uncomfortable for them. Be independent. Don't quit your job and cut contact with your friends just to have all the time for him. Let him see you busily doing something else. Give him some space. Don't always be around him like you have nothing else to do. Men don't like it that way. If you don't give him that space, he will create that space for himself and that will mean pushing you way. You don't have to show up anytime he wants you to. There are times you should give an excuse but don't make it too much. When you promise to show up, you should show up. When you are with him, make it memorable for him.
The truth is that no man wants to be calling a woman seven times a day. They don't want women who will follow them around everywhere they go. It become uncomfortable for them. Be independent. Don't quit your job and cut contact with your friends just to have all the time for him. Let him see you busily doing something else. Give him some space. Don't always be around him like you have nothing else to do. Men don't like it that way. If you don't give him that space, he will create that space for himself and that will mean pushing you way. You don't have to show up anytime he wants you to. There are times you should give an excuse but don't make it too much. When you promise to show up, you should show up. When you are with him, make it memorable for him.
It will be very difficult for a man to let go of a woman who is; playful, attractive, sincere, independent, and makes him feel superior.
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